- Takes full ownership of his judgments toward others and understands that they are really about himself.
- Risks everything for her full aliveness.
- Owns the space wherever he is as his responsibility.
- A sober steward of her energy and is careful not to give it away when it is not valued.
- Constantly generates possibility.
- Lives in a state of curiosity.
- Tells the truth without needing to be prompted, for the pure exhilaration of it.
- Commits to giving and receiving feedback, regardless of how it is delivered and who is delivering it.
- Lets go of things that are not working, feels the sadness of the loss, then moves on, creating waves of innovation
- Cannot afford to think negative thoughts about herself.
- Perpetually releases expectations about how things need to be.
- Is committed to appreciation – both fully opening to receive and willing to give appreciation.
- Becomes what he experiences as missing in others and the world.
- Opens a space where he and others can permanently lose fascination with personal stories and personality dramas.
- Gets afraid like everyone else. She moves through fear efficiently by expanding into breath and possibility, rather than contracting into solidity and entrenched positions.
- Reveals in order to generate clarity, rather than mystery, with those around him.
- Uses everything, including her own and others' defensive postures, to be of service.

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Inspired by the work of Drs. Gay & Kathlyn Hendricks www.hendricks.com